Louche Goose

Louche Goose
...and what are we going to do tomorrow Pinky?

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Moments in Movement

Hold on to the kite string
Let the bubble slowly gain momentum
As balloons pop gold confetti
This right here's Moments in Movement
- Macromantics

What are we still doing in the city?
And the child sleeps.
What are we still dragging our feet, lugging, slogging...how big is this whole that we're digging? they ask.
And the child sleeps on his mother's chest, sprawled and stuck. Lullabyed by the wheels on the bus going round and round. It's a cold and frosty morning, but he sleeps.

As the father, mother and baby roll along, alseep but not resting, their tired minds wonder: how much more city can we take? Their nostrils full of dust, their hair smoky, ears unable to tune down the white/blakc/mixed noise. They are weary from the weight of their bags and they wonder: where is the Nature?

As they roll along they dream of what has passed. The mother remembers sitting in Eric and Londi's student garden, drinking rooibos from a tin cup. 'It's not rooibos till you've had it in South Africa' sings Londi, all eyes and dreads and lifeforce. The baby sucks on a rusk -- the other South African staple.

The father is embroiled in an action dream. He is in an unfamiliar city. (Is Montevideo familiar to many outside its own borders?). It's late, and the encroaching darkness pushes him to find shelter for his family. 'But we made a reservation!' 'No seƱor, disculpe. No esta nada a qui.' He covertly fondles his credit card in his pocket; the urban man's weapon of choice. He wonders how far he will go with using it tonight...





Back in the mother's dream the scene shifts to a hot Cape Town afternoon. It is seriously hot. It's Christmas Eve day and The Mountain shows no sign of bringing wet and cooling relief. Mother, father and baby are out on their arse, looking for shelter. This stresses them all, each in his or her own way. They eat a kebab from a disenchanted Turkish-German who fell in love with Cape Town and returned to build a life. 'This city seduces you at first glance. It's magic. But living here is a different story.'

Then in a swirl of Beatle-esque psychodelia it starts to shift and happen.

The mother, exhausted and nervous, runs down Long street, clutching the list of useless hotel numbers, all dead-ends, all rooms full. She speeds into the Mexican cantina where the father and baby are relaxing with milkshakes and nachos. And when the soft, melancholy owner reaches out to ask how the househunt is going she bursts into tears of exasperation. He calls his contacts. Nothing. They go back to the phone and try others. Occuppied. She dials more hotels and out of the corner of her eye notices that the baby is unravelling an African wire sculpture of a Christmas tree. And somebody is taking a video of him. She sits down on the floor just for a moment, relishing the cool and dark and quiet. From this low vantage point she observes a Spanish girl in a yellow headscarf, talking rapidly about the 'Namibia Project'. The father is explaining their situation to a Zimbabwean wire sculpture artist and in a split-second decision they get up, walk out of the artist¡s studio and are back on Long Street, the man filming them from the depths of the room, holding his tiny digital camera steady as they vanish through the doorway.

Later they will learn that man's name (Coco); of his love for his little camera (Austrian graphic designer and wiz-bang artistic kid); his relationship with the Spanish girl (a deep, childlike, protective love); and his relationship to them (we are all Jews, we have all run from Odessa or Vienna, we have all known an old lady Lola and as we squeeze each other's hands tight, tight with the electricity of finding soul siblings, our big, dark Semitic eyes so at home with sadness weep their heart-stomping Gypsy lovesong).

Later, they will find a place to stay; far from ideal, but ok. They will dump their bags, walk back down Long Street, and the mother, hearing a distant choir singing Gospel will say 'let's follow that sound'. They will end up in the palm heart of the Company's Gardens, unexpectedly pulled into a pavillion with families, fruit and biscuits, Xosa kids warming up for a marimba concert. They will receive a call from Eric and Londi, inviting them to dineer with some gown-ups and the bizarrely! wonderfully! just-who-the-hell-are-we?! be treated to an elegant supper in one of Cape Town's top restaraunts, ogling the art nouveau detail in this converted Victorian bank while nibbling on langoustines and slowly sipping gazpacho with a raw salmon rosette and avocado icecream.

They will fall into a heap on the bed in their hotel, and declare that this shall forever be known as the day of four dinners: kabab, nachos, fruit in the gardens and langouste in the bank. They will be fatigued beyond belief. They will be happy.

And when they wake up they will travel though the rest of their time in Cape Town, constantly realising that a city is a city is a city, but not this city. This city seduces you then becomes your mother.

They will find evidence of angelic activity sequestered in the woodwork. Frangiapani trees standing guard, bottles of water offered when the baby is thirsty on a long train trip, invitations to Shabbat dinner by newlyweds who are so conscious of their footprint they have become Kosher vegetarian gourmandes. Elderly men with coffee and croissants materialising when the family is lost and exasparated, Brazilian air traffic controllers who happen to speak a little English turning up to rescue them and find them somewhere to sleep, yet again...

And so the father reviews his options: just find another room in another part of the city, pay too much for the damn thing and get out of here. Or stay at Hotel Nightmare Montevideo and fight for the room the've reserved.

And the Brazilian man taps him on the shoulder and says 'I speak a little English. Let me help you.' And he taps again. And he tap, tap, taps them all on the crown of the head, waking them to their new chapter.

And so we wake -- mother, father and baby -- stretching our limbs and looking around. And we realise, that while we slept, Table Mountain slipped under its invisibility cloak, time zones squeezed past, hemispheres almost shifted. And that it all really happened.

That the Nature of a city may not be green -- it is usually grey, splotched with screensaver silver. The sounds are not the Gaian call of the will once imagined. The pace of the subway subservients is certainly not 'natural'. But here's the thing: nature is the actions and intentions of the humans, who carry the vital force of the ethereal into the cogs of the mechanical.

And as Nature does, it just keeps happening. In the fingers and the wires and the sculpted Christmas trees. In the spiral of the city is the realisation that This is Not What It's Supposed to Be. But that's just it -- a city is a city. And for the time being, it has a good, strong, healthy heart. And with little regard for how things are supposed to be, it just keeps happening.

Friday, November 23, 2007

Melaka: Shades of Cochin

We have landed in Malaysia and moved from the big smoke to the slightly more relaxed smoke of Melaka. The guest house we chanced upon (or rather booked over a month ago...they were quite taken aback that we might want to book a room 4 weeks in advance) is called the Samudra Inn and is nice, clean and, above all, quiet. Somu and Marcia run the joint and have won Jonah over with a combination of pet birds (Jonah gets to tuck them in with a super-quiet "Good night quack-quack") and a ready supply of crackers.

We've been here almost a week and, although it is a relatively quiet town, we are still finding things which delight at least one of us (and frequently two or three!).

There are, of course 2 self-proclaimed Megamalls within strolling distance of our room. Much to our disgust, we have somehow managed to feel compelled to enter them at least once a day (KatiaQuote: "...but supermarkets have practically everything you could ever need!). Needless to say Jonah loves the escalators and gets really worked up when it is time to take a "BIG STEP!"

Megamalls aside, Melaka had Katia and I both reminiscing about Cochin. It is partly the richly confusing smells of 'little india', but I think it has a lot to do with the sense of serendipity we've felt as we chase Jonah into shops, alleys and playgrounds. We have met some wonderful people who create some very wonderful things.

Charles Cham is an artist from Melaka who has intrigued us with both his designs and his conversation. We've been drawn back to his shopfront by the classically smoky blues which waft for blocks if you've got your ears tuned right.

Mr. Yee and his wife Susan (he has refused, point blank, to tell me his first name) have been wonderfully welcoming, taking us out to dinner and breakfast as well as teaching us about the joys of tea. Mr. Yee also showed us how to cook some malay and chinese dishes (recipes in the next post). We found Mr. Yee through couchsurfing.com and contacted him before we arrived but have been bowled over by their enthusiasm and warmth.

They have been amazing with Jonah, entertaining him with toys, painting, songs and general silliness. Mr. Yee takes particular glee in Jonah's habit of rearranging his tea shop (like moving 5 litre bottles of methylated spirits from corner to corner). Mr. Yee's child-rearing philosophy goes something like this:
Children should be respected. If a child asks for something that will not immediately lead to their death or disfigurement, you should give it to them. The child will then learn from his/her experiences and will not feel limited by your fear.

Thanks to Mr. Yee, Jonah has tried whisky, given himself a pepper facial, indulged in some front seat driving and is currently coming down from a 2-day caffeine bender. As you can imagine, they are the best of friends.

Jonah has also been regularly accosted by locals who feel that it is their inalienable right to pinch his cheeks and upper arms. He now says a very loud "No!" whenever anyone approaches with their pincers at the ready.

Jonah's Diction: Mini-Pocket Guide

For all the Jonah fans out there (and I know a you're out there)...

The mini-pocket guide to Jonah's strings of meaning

The bold letters are the one's he actually says, the rest is conjecture and inspired detective work.

I want to eat a samosa/roti! (Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia)
Nona is a boy. Mama is a girl. Aba is a big boy. (Melaka, Malaysia)
I was so mad! (Melaka, Malaysia)
[When he wakes up and we ask him what he dreamt about, about 3/4 of the time, he answers...] Buddha
I want to go in Anna's car (Melaka, Malaysia)

For the diehard fans, I will try to record him soon.

He is, of course, spreading the joy wherever he goes.

Sunday, November 4, 2007

Juggling work and work

This is not about work/life balance.
This is not about justifying my work in terms of my life.
It is certainly not about justifying my life in terms of my work.

This is about ambidextrous moving meditation.

I've been very lucky to work in a position with the freedom to listen, develop, implement, promote and evaluate a whole bunch of innovative programs.

Basically I've been juggling like mad. Since giving notice 5 weeks ago (by email...how very very rude!) I've had to stop throwing them up and start catching them. The last few weeks in particular have involved
  • Running around like crazy to get participants to finalise their editing, hosting and planning for the RYMedia Project
  • Negotiating immediate priorities with the young people with whom I work
  • Writing up various reports and work plans; and
  • Getting everything neat and tidy for my soon-to-be-interviewed replacement
and of course (*I am a little social worker for breakfast, lunch and tea*) documenting everything exhaustively.

The single most important lesson I've learned from quitting my first proper-adult job is this: no one else is working to your timetable. I guess this is true all of the time, but it only becomes critical when the countdown has commenced.

The crypt is dead, long live the crypt!

Those of you lucky enough to enter our formerly humble abode sometime over the last 2 years will have heard us grumbling under our breath about our flat on The Avenue (generally referred to as the crypt, including once to our real estate agent).
I'm not sure why, but way back in 2005 we weren't tipped off by the
complete lack of natural light or the smoker's courtyard.

Since this is the only house that Jonah has ever lived in we've been worried that he might be feeling a little anxious.

As gung-ho, never leave a stone unturned type parental units, Katia and I felt that a proactive approach would be best. We've been talking to him about getting on the plane [jonahspeak: byeeee] and going away with only Imma and Abba.

In the end, we decided against covering his paws in butter...he may be a kitten but I don't think he'd ever forgive or forget.

We also figured that it was important for Jonah to be a productive member of the moving crew, so he helped us to pack, measure, tie-up and carry our other-worldy possessions. Jonah and I have also been helping various people out in their gardens; he is a little earthmover and loves to compare little cuts afterwards.
Jonah may be a little clingy from the permament state of sleep-over, but no more than Katia or I. He's been the very definition of Louche: insisting on extra servings of crackers, stories and hugs from everyone. His Louche-ious ways have even scored him a second mama (Kimba) and a very friendly lady friend next-door (Enya).

In any case, the crypt is dead, long live the crypt! We've packed up and moved sideways to Chez Grimba and the crash course in Loucheology has commenced.